Tuesday 23 January 2018

Falling into Place

When you reach the point in your life when you start seeing your dreams and visions coming to fruition its a very rewarding feeling.  Things in the past few months have progressively gotten better in some aspects of my life, while other parts have managed to hit bottom.  In the midst of a lot of positive things happening for me there are parts of my life that are struggling.  It's such a battle when I am in such a good place with myself, but other parts of my life seem to continue to hold me down.  Hard to find a balance some days. Working on myself daily has helped me grow into the person I have always wanted to be but never felt I could be.  Mind over matter is harder than it sounds!

But I've learned a few valuable lessons, in that what you put out there you get back.  I'm tired of the Woe is me attitude I carried for so long.  It gets old, but sometimes it's very hard to get past.
What helped me was finding something, solely for me.  I needed something all for myself, something to call my own.  More than a hobby, it has to be something that actually satisfies you, Something that you look forward to regardless of what else is happening in your life.  It's your solace.
When you find something that gratifies you, it's amazing how your life can turn around.  At least in my case, I can tell you I have never felt better, Stronger, and more confident.
Trust me, things are not picture perfect so don't for one second think that I'm not still dealing with crap, I've just chosen to focus on all the good, and let all that other stuff work itself out.
Figuring out how to do that has taken me what feels like a lifetime to do, we spend so much time searching for greatness but little do we know we all have it in ourselves, we just need to figure out a way to channel it and bring it to the surface.
This journey for me has been more than an eye opener, you see it has showed me so much about myself.  I've had to go through the worst to discover the best.  It's also amazing to me how a process like this will put so much into perspective.  I'm now putting more importance into smaller things than I ever have.
Now I want to help people learn that every bad situation does in fact have a silver lining, you may not be able to see it at the time but life lessons are everywhere!

As you think, so you shall be - Dr. Wayne Dyer

Most profound words I have heard.
Don't ever sit back and wait for your life to change.
There are great things waiting for you!

Short but sweet today, nice to be back~